No one likes losing control to that extent Actually, being aloof/distant has helped me in meeting women & in relationships. When I'm out in public, I'm typically aloof & women have sometimes initiated conversations with me, etc.

It's great Actually, being aloof/distant has helped me in meeting women & in relationships. When I'm out in public, I'm typically aloof & women have sometimes initiated conversations with me, etc. So I typically will put my cards out on the table early and move on if "interest level" games start taking place. I've found that being able to cut your losses and move on has a certain charm/seductive quality to it. I always try to stay somewhat "aloof" in a relationship...

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And any time we’re forced to do something unpleasant, we begin to loathe even the thought of it. You have to learn to speak, act, and express yourself in a way that is congruent and rewarding to you.

To start fixing this, there’s a level of personal responsibility to make the experience more fun for yourself. If you’re always trying to figure out what other people want and how to impress them — you’re in for a bad, anxiety-ridden time.

This then leads them to be protective, defensive, and inadvertently hurt others themselves…a.k.a. We get into a cycle where we all lose basic courtesy and treat each other like shit, when dating is supposed to be a beautiful experience.

So I want share the ways I see men and women mistreat each other.

Only when we’re aware of our actions and how they affect others can we create healthier dating for everyone. Having that conversation can be really challenging. You know that she might get hurt if she’s looking for more than just a casual relationship.

When you’re being honest with your intentions, you’re letting her decide how she wants to proceed.Because I see a whole lot of people treating each other poorly.Sometimes, they may not even realize the gravity of their actions. Then they start to lose trust or resent connecting with others in the future.She’s trusting you with the most vulnerable part of herself and you’re betraying her.You have to be committed to being upfront with women.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!