To make things easier, you can do a few things in your profile like stirring up an emotional reaction that will entice her to message you, or including questions for her to answer.

Most people don't put much thought into their headline and will write things like "looking for love" or "nice guy looking for a nice girl"... It will only make your profile blend in with everyone else's and could even convey desperation or a boring personality.

Instead, go with something witty and unique that either creates intrigue or makes someone laugh.

5) Don't Reveal Too Much - Create Some Mystery It's important not to reveal too much about yourself on your profile - leave a little bit to the imagination and create a sense of mystique.

It will give the woman some questions to ask you and things to talk about.

Your goal is to be perceived as a person who is interesting and fun, not someone who is dull or creepy.

7) Check Your Spelling Finally, make sure to spell-check your profile and avoid using shortened versions of words like 'u' instead of 'you'.

By writing a serious profile, they often come across as too desperate.

Women may think you're boring and cannot get dates in real life.

Phrases like this don't help you stand out and can be BORING to read after having seen them so many times.

The good thing is, if you write a unique profile you'll immediately set yourself apart from others on the site and gain an advantage. We'll get into more detail about how to do this in the sections below.

He says we should take our act on the road, but I think he needs to brush up on his harmonies first." The above paragraph communicates that the person likes to sing, that he likes children and that he is funny!